Brack vs. George

I was just wondering why Hedda might like Brack more than she likes George. When comparing the two it seems like George has less of a grasp on himself and his marriage. He continually asks Hedda questions about what she thinks, and if shes okay as if he doesnt feel secure enough with who he is and doesnt really understand what to do. Brack seems like he has a much stronger grasp on who he is and what he wants.. The fact that he doesnt want to settle down and just wants a "love triangle" makes him look kinda like a player. I noticed this really strong difference between the two in the way they treated Hedda with the pistols... George asked her to not play with the pistols anymore and Brack physically took them out of her hands - showing a very distinct difference in the amount of power and knowledge in how to use that power between the two.